Conflict management videos

Conflict styles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-TfLvMk_kQ

Conflict De-escalation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KM9gaoN6-fo

Conflict management resources
NVC (Non-Violent Communication): https://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/learn-nonviolent-communication/nvc-de-escalation/

Communication

Bill Eddy (BIFF Communication): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2kCw3VovTI

The Law Center (and Bill Eddy) series: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aN0mIr84yeI&list=PLkj28_4yhpqamRpPfaeul4UUmvdvLxWTM&index=2

Emotional management

Dr Christian Conte: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZI7VjwvZx8

The Trauma Foundation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZdIQRxwT1I0&t=22s

Re-origin (calm in 60 seconds): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3wf2x2vCLk

Boundaries

The Divorced Woman’s Guide: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwKquC0hvl0

Mediation

The ADR Centre: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nRf7LO2iMM&t=101s

FairWay Resolution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORhpznY589k

What happens at a Family Court Hearing without a lawyer

Part 1
Ministry of Justice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvH8dEYLTC0

Te reo Māori: https://youtu.be/z7ci3qmbBoY?si=v8j0J8mvLQ6ADqpI

Part 2
Ministry of Justice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEk6Z8RNVmU

Te reo Māori: https://youtu.be/VhO11j7d_Jw?si=-xHLb-X0Gifie9Oh

Children and Separation

Ministry of Justice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjp7uhkW4wI

Watch Relate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfLWOARZekw

Maggie Dent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=msNV4Cd0G2E

MLL Helsinki: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-S1RVlSSk2o

Dr. Lenne’ Hunt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vtoyVteJda4

Kids First Center: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cw37ovj9BDk

Finances – Getting help with your budget

Budgeting Template (excel spreadsheet)

NZ Government: https://www.govt.nz/browse/family-and-whanau/financial-help-for-your-family/getting-help-budget/

Work and Income: https://check.msd.govt.nz/ Freephone: 0800 559 009

Inland Revenue (Child Support): Freephone: 0800 221 221

FDR MEDIATION brochures

Fairway:
https://www.justice.govt.nz/assets/Documents/Decisions/Fair-Way-FDR-Brochure-Eng.pdf
https://www.justice.govt.nz/assets/Documents/Decisions/Fair-Way-FDR-brochure-Te-reo-Maori.pdf

Family Works
https://www.justice.govt.nz/assets/Documents/Decisions/PSC-FDR-brochure.pdf

Family Dispute Resolution Centre
https://fdrc.co.nz/parenting-and-guardianship-fdr-mediation/resources/fdr-mediation-brochure/

FIND A PRACTITIONER FOR FDR AND PTS (Parenting Through Separation)
https://www.justice.govt.nz/family/care-of-children/parenting-arrangements/cant-agree-on-parenting-arrangements/reach-an-agreement-outside-of-court/search-for-a-service-to-help-with-parenting-arrangements/

Useful numbers and websites:
Community Law Centre: https://communitylaw.org.nz/our-law-centres/

Justice.govt.nz:

Parenting plan

Parenting plan workbook:
https://www.justice.govt.nz/assets/Documents/Publications/MOJ0504_Making-a-parenting-plan-workbook.pdf

If you want a copy sent to you, freephone the Ministry of Justice on 0800 224 733.

Apply for family or civil legal aid

Community Law Centre(external link)
Citizens Advice Bureau(external link)
Find a legal aid lawyer(external link)
Family legal aid application form
Civil legal aid application form

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, call the police on 111

Wellbeing